This piece is all about reminding everyone to stop comparing themselves with others. Everyone has a different path in life. Comparing our life with others will only throw us down rather than encouraging us to move ahead. One should always compare their past with what they are today. This will really help us in improving ourselves.
Everyone out there is fitting their own battles, sacrificing, working hard and trying to be consistent in whatever they are doing. They are going through different times and so everyone’s life is altogether a different path. Be it performing a task or achieving something, everyone has a different approach and a different speed. One should never compare his/her life with anyone around. This will only discourage you. Instead, compare your past with your present. Learn about your mistakes and applaud yourself for coming this far.
Comparing your success and failures with others will only waste your time. Only you will know what is good for you and what is not. No one else but only you yourself can understand what is best for you. There might be certain things that only you can bring into creation. You can look up to someone as your ideal. You can admire and learn from others creativity. You can listen to what experts say. But, stop comparing your life with them. Everyone is unique in their own ways. Stop comparing and start learning!
You should start appreciating yourself for winning all the small battles. You have reached this far, isn’t that a big deal? You will tend to lose your focus as soon as you compare yourself with others. Therefore, stay motivated and pat your back for all the little wins. Forgive yourself for all your mistakes. Take it easy, you will succeed one day. Concentrate on your goals and aims. Stop looking what everyone else is doing and how far they have reached.
Be kind to yourself. All you need to have is patience. You cannot build a skill in a day. It requires years of experience and knowledge. The process will be slow but be consistent and you will be able to achieve it someday. Have faith in yourself and the work you are doing. It will never go waste. If you genuinely believe that it is meant for you and you have the audacity to achieve it, it will definitely be yours. Consistency is the key. Make sure that you are spending your quality time and not focusing on the quantity.
Do what you feel is right and not what the crowd says. Admire yourself more than you admire others. It isn’t easy to reach this far. You have overcome all the obstacles that were laid on your path. Give yourself the credit! Stop hating yourself long enough to realize that you have so much to offer. Gather all your courage and strength to make it happen. Your life is and will always be better in your own hands. Do it for yourself and not for others.
Don’t forget that everyone has fought their battles. It isn’t a piece of cake for everyone. What we see isn’t the only thing! There’s a lot more inside. Therefore, compare yourself to where you were yesterday and you will definitely reach your goal.