What’s more saddening than being alone especially on the occasions when you wanted people to be around you and cheer you up? Moreover, the celebration has its true meaning when you have the company of your loved ones. But, not necessarily. You see, we all are social beings and sharing our ecstasy with others is what binds us together.
There comes a time when you’re all on your own and making yourself elated becomes your own responsibility. This is when you realize that you can be happy without having someone around you. You don’t need to ponder as to who’d pleased by your actions. When you allow yourself to settle alone in silence, you have the power to strengthen your boundaries.
On the contrariety, people think that being alone only comprises the negative side and living this way can leave you in a dilapidated world. But, that’s not true. It doesn’t imply that you don’t want to get out of your comfort zone or feel the pain that makes you stronger. Above all, you gain the competence to not let everyone cross the threshold and not every person in your reach has a good feeling about you. Most importantly, it teaches you not to rely on anyone when you’re in trouble or trepidation.
The solutions are possibly inside your head and you can get the best of it if you spend some time alone and learn about your well-being. So, worry not if it’s your birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s, New Year’s Eve or any other precious moments. Sometimes, being alone in these times is a blessing. People may think it to be absurd but the truth is actually the opposite. It defines your maturity because your contentment isn’t dependent on any other person around you. Especially, you’ll not be bothered by what people think about you.
For some, it may be conspicuous in one way or another. Call it pride, anti-socialism or selfishness, it’s all the opposite of what may seem to be true. This way, you’ll allow only those people who deserve to know everything about your life. Moreover, your importance in a group will proliferate better than ever. This can be your filter system to remove the unnecessary toxicity.
Also, there might be some who’ll question your proclivity to live in such manner but you always know who you are. The truth is that they cannot overcome their own hindrances without a helping hand. And when you look onto loneliness with such a different perspective, you realize that you have something special within you. Not the one which is easy for the world to comprehend, but definitely a treasure that we all, unknowingly, long to have in our existence.