Self-love is the engine of life that propels the bliss hovering around. It empowers one to cherish life to the full. However, only a few souls can discover the secret of self-love. It does not dwell on the accomplishments or desires. But it blooms in the moments that reflect one’s real self. Thus, self-realization is the key to unwind self-love.
Life is a roller-coaster ride with infinite ups and downs. The unprecedented moments waft in to lace it in the brightest hues to reflect on its best facet. However, they are not delectable every time. Sometimes, they greet one with full pomp and show. But other times, they push through the pall of gloom to overshadow the euphoria around.
Juggling through the contrasting times, souls often end up giving to the darker points and turns. Seeing their life seeping in the mess, they start playing the blame game with themselves. They put themselves at the center of the debacles and blame their actions for their state. Not just that, they go ahead denigrating themselves for the irreparable loss of opportunities and cocoon their souls in the guilt.
The scenario gets egregious, and they begin to see themselves as the reason behind the fiasco around them. The obnoxious vibes imbue their hearts with anathema. They pull themselves away from the social sphere and lock their souls in the tyranny of life.
And in the course, they end up missing out the silver lining adorning their awful experience. The moments of failure unveil one’s real self. The hubris of perfectness begins to wane with the realization of one’s weaknesses- an unavoidable truth of life. The winds of introspection begin to sweep the heart to let one cherish the pulchritude of living a human life. The worst facets highlight the bounties of life.
After getting through the ambivalence, striking the right note, one finally manages to grab the concoct of self-love. It makes one look at the positives festooning the sphere of life in a sanguine way. It empowers one to dispel the darkness of ignorance and myth in the best possible way. The vestiges of broken dreams and expectations cement the castles of hope and aspirations with the discovery of self-love.
One need not be perfect to grab the charm of self-love. The acceptance of imperfectness of life is the first step in the ladder of winning self-love. It does not require one to scour for it in other personalities. But it thrives in the deepest reaches of one’s heart where the spring of purity gushes.
Sit there in solitary to let every tear meet its fate after fiddles. Cherish the ache to the full, but aloof from getting drenched with it. Abandon the ones who afflicted your soul, but shed the enmity and pray for their good. Accept other’s hate or love for you in the best spirits, but don’t let it reach your head.
Apart from mental health, self-love also craves for a healthy body. Thus, shower some love on your body by opting for a healthy lifestyle. Go for nutrients and vitamins that can provide your body with the power to withstand the torrents of life.
At last, clamp down on the evils in you that stifle you from being your best version. Work out on the purge of the worst to win the best thriving in you.
Thus, instead of weeping bitterly over the worst popping in the way, look for the beautiful dawn with self-love.