It is always said that one should trust the timing of their life. Try and be patient. Everything happens for a reason. It will happen when it is meant to happen. There will be many obstacles to slow you down. What really matters is how you tackle them and move on. In the end, everything will be okay.
Those immediate moments of despair and sadness, going through tough times in life, that phase of life when one hits the rock bottom; you need to remember that it isn’t the end. You will make a comeback. It is just that you need to be patient. Everything takes time. Trust the timing of your life. While on one hand human nature lacks patience, on the other hand humans wish to design their own future. You need to realize that everything will not go as planned, everything would not happen in your favor.
One needs to understand that struggles are just a part of life and not the totality of what life entails. There are hard times when one feels trapped in their path of life. One may even find it difficult to see life beyond it. But the truth is that struggles are temporary and one will always be able to overcome it with the passage of time. When you feel trapped in any kind of situation, remember you will always have a choice. The choice of moving forward and fighting back.
The power of choosing the method of survival, choosing how to overcome a situation and choosing how to remain happy in tough times always lies in your hands. You have the right to choose what’s good for you. You need to accept the fact that no life exists without struggle. No matter how happy and perfect life seems from outside, there always exists some kind of darkness from the inside which is hidden from the world to see. No one expresses their thoughts, worries and internal battles. Life doesn’t look the way it is!
A friendly reminder: In the end everything will be alright. No matter how hard life may become for you, you will soon be able to get over it. Just give your best shot! Remember that each path taken is a path you will learn from. You will stand confident and feel that you made the right decision. You will learn from your very own experiences. Every turn you may take or have taken in past years will teach you what kind of a person you were and what you are becoming.
Open yourself to change. Experience what life has to offer. If you are willing to change, no one can stop you from growing. Be ready to welcome new experiences. Personal growth is important and it will come only if you are willing to accept all sorts of changes, be it good or bad. Despite of emotional pain and turmoil, you should only have a positive mindset. The best way to deal with negative emotions is to let yourself feel the emotions you’re feeling and let them pass, do not push them under the rug!
Believe in yourself and everything shall pass!